General Provisions - Behavioral
Compliance with these expectations is required of participants in order to maintain their status as a member of that activity’s group, club, or team. Failure to meet these behavioral expectations described in the following paragraphs will have the indicated impact on the student’s participation in co-curricular activities.
1. Stealing, Alcohol, Tobacco, and Drugs: It is the practice of BFMS that possession and/or use of tobacco, alcohol, and/or non-prescription drugs by any student are not permitted. Infractions of these rules by a participant in co-curricular activities will result in a hearing before a school administrator who will render a decision on the infraction relative to the student’s continued participation in co-curricular activities. All Rockingham School Board policies and procedures regarding these substances still apply.
First Offense - See procedure for Middle School Student Eligibility.
- Drug/Alcohol assessment or smoking cessation class.
Second Offense - See procedure for Middle School Student Eligibility.
- Drug/Alcohol assessment or smoking class required. This must be successfully completed prior to any future athletic participation.
2. Sportsmanship (for sports activities): It is the expectation of the School Board and the School Administration that students will, at all times, exercise good sportsmanship. If a student displays unreasonable or unsportsmanlike conduct while participating in a co-curricular activity, the coach, Athletic Director or Administration will assign appropriate consequences.
3. Citizenship: Citizenship is defined as the quality of an individual’s response to others in a community. It is the expectation of the School Board and School Administration that students will, at all times, demonstrate behavior that reflects positive, supportive citizenship in the activity they are participating in. If a student displays unreasonable or poor citizenship while participating in a co-curricular activity, the coach, Athletic Director or Administration will assign appropriate consequences.
4. General Conduct: At all times, student participants should conduct themselves in ways that are not detrimental to the reputation of the school, team, or activity. If a student is involved in conduct that is deemed detrimental to the reputation of the school, team, or activity, and/or if a student displays defiance/disrespect to any staff member the coach, Athletic Director or Administration will assign appropriate consequences.
5. Attendance: Students must be on time and attend practice. Consequences for being late or not attending are assigned by the coach and the Athletic Director.
BFMS Behavioral Goals and Expectations
We are Respectful, Accountable and Supportive to Ourselves, to Everyone, and to Our School
Teamwork
Engagement
Respect
Responsibility
Integrity
Encouragement
Resilience
Spirit
Teamwork
We believe in supporting each other and working together to reach a common goal.
Engagement
We believe in giving it our all every day to accomplish our goals and encourage others to do the same.
Respect
We value each other and treat each other with an appreciation of our differences.
Responsibility
We take accountability for our actions.
Integrity
We are honest, fair, and work hard to "do the right thing," even when others are not looking.
Encouragement
We trust and count on each other to provide support.
Resilience
We persevere through the challenges we face.
Spirit
We influence each other positively with a sense of pride in our school and community.
At BFMS learning is the major focus of our school program and activities. In order to experience a positive school climate, our school expectations of RESPECT for self, others, and property are essential. Our goal is to create and maintain a positive, safe, and nurturing learning environment, which will enhance our students’ academic, social and learning outcomes. It is our expectation for everyone in our school community to model respect even in the most difficult of circumstances.
Bellows Falls Middle School believes that in order to provide an optimum educational atmosphere, all students will:
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Use words and actions that demonstrate respect for others and for themselves
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Maintain an environment which is free from the threat of emotional or physical danger
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Use words and actions that support and encourage learning
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Arrive on time and be prepared to learn
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Maintain a clean, safe, and secure environment
The behavior response system at BFMS is designed to assist students in making appropriate choices and taking responsibility for their own actions. Our school wide expectations and discipline plan for all students are implemented by all BFMS employees. -
Before any disciplinary action is taken, the student will be provided with the opportunity to discuss the incident with teachers or administration.
BFMS Behavior Matrix
The following set of expectations for instructional and non-instructional areas of our school:
In All School Settings we will:
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respect ourselves by always doing your best, and work cooperatively.
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respect others by following directions, keeping hand, feet, and other objects to yourself, and share/help others.
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respect property by recycling, taking care of your belongings, and clean up after yourselves.
In the hallways we will:
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respect ourselves by traveling directly and quietly to our destination, maintain personal space, and use stair properly.
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respect others by walking on the right, travel quietly, and display our pass.
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respect property by keeping the hallways clean, picking up our trash, and respect displays and bulletin boards.
In the bathrooms we will:
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respect ourselves by getting our pass signed, flush the toilet, and washing our hands.
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respect others by honoring privacy, use quiet voices, and flush the toilet.
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respect property by keeping the bathroom clean, report problems, and conserve materials.
In the cafeteria we will:
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respect ourselves by eating our own food, use utensils and napkins, leave only with permission.
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respect others by practicing good table manners, using quiet voices, and give courtesy to all.
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respect property by cleaning our area and choosing one seat.
In the library and computer lab we will:
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respect ourselves by using time to read, study, or research, have a signed pass, keep passwords private.
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respect others by maintaining personal space, use quiet voices, and return books on time.
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respect property by treating books and equipment with care, push in chairs when leaving, and report and problems.
In the auditorium we will:
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respect ourselves by storing electronic devices, and stay in your assigned space.
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respect others by using quiet voices, give attention to the speaker, and use appropriate applause.
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respect property by sitting in chairs appropriately, and keep beverage, gum, and food out of the area.
In the Health Office we will:
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respect ourselves by coming with a signed pass, and only seek medical care when necessary.
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respect others by waiting outside for your turn, and respect others privacy.
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respect property by keeping our hands off equipment, and conserve supplies and materials.
On the bus we will:
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respect ourselves by walking to a seat, remain seated, and enter and exit quietly and orderly.
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respect others by using quiet voices, keeping our hands and feet to ourselves, and share a seat.
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respect property by eating at the appropriate time, and keep the bus clean.
During an evacuation drill we will:
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respect ourselves by walking silently, and maintain personal space.
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respect others by following adult directions, stay with the group, and stay silent.
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respect property by staying on the sidewalk, and leaving property of others alone.
At dismissal we will:
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respect ourselves by bringing all necessary materials, leave at correct time, and walk quietly.
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respect others by following adult directions, line up for the bus in designate area, and walkers will leave the property.
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respect property by respecting the grounds, stay on walkway areas, and keep area clean.
Classroom Managed Behavior
Office Managed Behavior
Drugs, Vaping (using, sharing, selling)
Weapons
Skipping Class
Bullying/Harassment/Hazing
Offensive actions
Aggressive arguing
Security issues
Repeated disruptive classroom behavior
Threatening
Plagiarism
Restorative Practices
Restorative Practices build and nurture relationships, which, in turn, create a positive and healthy school community that is just and equitable. To achieve this, students and staff engage in weekly community building circles covering an array of topics. When a conflict does arise, affected individuals repair harm collaboratively by reflecting on the impact on individuals and the community, and working to restore relationships. Along the way, students build empathy and deepen their accountability to one another.
Types of School Consequences
All the students of our community must feel safe, secure and supported while they are in school. The responses to student behavior we use are in an effort to support and maintain a safe, healthy and positive climate at BFMS.
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Redirection - If this is a first time, and it is a relatively minor infraction, you may talk with either the teacher or administrator who will remind you of the rules and our expectations for your behavior.
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Parent Contact – The teacher or administrator will notify parents/guardians informing them of your school code of conduct violation.
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Parent Conference – A meeting held with parents/guardians, possibly with administration, guidance counselors, and teachers to discuss concerns and create a plan for improvement.
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Restitution – You will be asked to pay for damages you created, perform a service for your school community, or make up wasted time. You may be asked to write or express words of apology if you have hurt someone in some way.
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Administrative or Teacher Reflective Lunch - A reflective lunch is served in a quiet space. Students will retrieve their lunch choice from the cafeteria serving area and then report to reflective lunch in the Reset Room. Reflective lunches occur during their regularly scheduled lunch time and do not interfere with their academic courses. Three administrator issued reflective lunches will result in a ½ day of in school suspension.
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Before School Reflection - A before school reflection is served in the Reset Room or teacher’s classroom within two school days of being assigned. Students will report to the Reset Room or teacher’s classroom at 7:30 a.m. immediately after getting to the building. Before school reflection ends at 8:00 a.m. where students will then report to their advisory classroom. Students must arrive at school no later than 7:30 a.m. for the before school reflection for it to count as served.
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Suspension - Suspension days vary from 1 to 10 days depending on the offense. Students who are suspended “in-school” are barred from participating in athletics and/or co-curricular activities or special school events during the days of suspension see Middle School Eligibility. Students who are suspended “out-of-school" are prohibited from the building, prohibited from attending classes, prohibited from being on school grounds, and prohibited from being involved in or attending any school related activities.
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In-School Suspension - is a temporary removal from the regular academic setting. Students serving an In-school suspension will be isolated from their grade level peers. Students will have classroom work sent to them and are expected to work silently with the help of our reset room/ISS para. Failure to act appropriately during an in-school suspension may result in further disciplinary action. Students will work through a restorative process with the staff member in charge of while in the In-School Suspension room.
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Out-of-School suspension - This consequence is used when it is determined that a student’s behavior is harmful to others, or that the other normal school consequences have not helped correct inappropriate behaviors. By placing a student in their parents/guardians care for one or more days, we are removing them from the educational and social setting where behavior has been inappropriate. In all cases of suspension, the administrator will notify the student's family. Students placed in Out-of-School suspension will be required to have a re-entry meeting with one of the administrators and school counselor upon return to school and will be required to go through a restorative process.
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Alternatives to suspension: We recognize that suspensions do not always address the underlying causes of problem behavior and that it can have a negative impact on a student’s education. When administrators deem it appropriate, the following may be used in lieu of suspension out of school or to reduce lengthy suspensions.
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Conflict Resolution and Restorative Justice: Counselors and other staff often work with students to resolve conflicts before a violent incident occurs or, afterwards, to defuse hostility. The benefit to the offender is a reduction in the length of suspension and an opportunity to address any personal issues that contributed to the behavior. The benefit to the victim is an opportunity to bring closure to the incident and reduce the likelihood of further incidents.
Students may be offered the option of going before a panel of trained peers to resolve a conflict or make amends for an offense against a fellow student, teacher or other community members.
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Other strategies that may be used to address problem behavior are:
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Referral to a counselor or mental health clinician
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Referral to the Educational Support Team
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Parent conference
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Behavior plan
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Drug assessment and tobacco cessation group
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